WHATEVER IT TAKES MY CHILD! Have you lost a child? Or someone close to you? Are you struggling with life in general? Do you need somewhere to express yourself?

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Thoughts with you all

Becky and Jye

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Let’s talk and give help and support to each other.

What I have found is so many of us are all going through the same things and having to deal with the same issues and concerns, but no one likes to talk about, in case it’s seen as bad parenting.

These issues are real and people need help and support to get through this..

Parents, guardians and carers we need to band together and assist, judgement free.

And we are still sitting here, this time on a rainy cold winter night. The mind starts to become slightly clearer and begins to make a-little bit of sense of the situation.

With the smell of a delicious lamb roast cooking in the oven, the feel of warm heat radiating through the house and the comfort and safety of my blanket on the couch.

It was in that moment that i realised that these simple things are rare and often taken for granted, these simple moments that are so hard for many to come by.

Mean while my children are settled, there is peace and quiet slowly creeping through the air. I stop and think, this cant last forever, can it?

Time has told me that this could end at any time.

It was then, that i was called upon to transport my son number 2 to work (so up and off i go again), heading out into the cold wet night. Taken away from the safety of the couch and my home, i grab my keys and head to the car (something that has been done so many times before and year after year), was this time going to be any different?

Travelling in the car, not a word whispered, many words thought. The pain still radiating and lingering on our lips, trying to keep strong and not let the tears escape, that this trip becomes slightly different than all the other times, wondering how much life we have left? but we continue on.

https://www.nimh.nih.gov/index.shtml

https://www.compassionatefriendsvictoria.org.au/

https://www.beyondblue.org.au/

http://www.lifelinecvm.org.au/

A message from Jye Andrews and Ella Young.

After struggling for some time with mental health and receiving all the support he could access, my son’s life was tragically taken away. He passed away due to a complete accident, he didn’t take his own life, but he did leave this message behind.

Jye was moving into a great independent space, however he passed away aged 18years.

Life cut to short, in an instant.

@missingmybabyboy

http://www.beyondblue.org.au

Becky.andrews@whateverittakesmychild.

http://www.whateverittakesmychild.com

In one single moment; in a simple instant everything changed; life as we knew it changed forever.

Have you ever stopped to think about what you would do if you suddenly received the most devastating news of your life?

Many do, many think they know exactly what they would do in the situation, but do they really? Can you ever prepare yourself?

Could you lose a child and progress forward with life?

That feeling of guilt, regret and deep sadness gives you the sense of never being able to continue on ever again.

This feeling hangs onto you like a weight that you can never shake off.

These feelings are all a normal part of the process and in the most part; is everything you consider on a daily basis.

However in the most darkest times, there is something that propels you to strive deeper inside yourself and power forward.

It maybe the deep burning desire to carry out their dreams, or the need to care for family left behind, or simply to keep remembering them in the best way possible.

You put one foot in front of another and proceed forward, one step at a time.

But how you wonder; how can we do all this after such a tragedy?