Depression and Anxiety

A message from Jye Andrews and Ella Young.

After struggling for some time with mental health and receiving all the support he could access, my son’s life was tragically taken away. He passed away due to a complete accident, he didn’t take his own life, but he did leave this message behind.

Jye was moving into a great independent space, however he passed away aged 18years.

Life cut to short, in an instant.

@missingmybabyboy

http://www.beyondblue.org.au

Becky.andrews@whateverittakesmychild.

http://www.whateverittakesmychild.com

In an instant..

In one single moment; in a simple instant everything changed; life as we knew it changed forever.

Have you ever stopped to think about what you would do if you suddenly received the most devastating news of your life?

Many do, many think they know exactly what they would do in the situation, but do they really? Can you ever prepare yourself?

Could you lose a child and progress forward with life?

That feeling of guilt, regret and deep sadness gives you the sense of never being able to continue on ever again.

This feeling hangs onto you like a weight that you can never shake off.

These feelings are all a normal part of the process and in the most part; is everything you consider on a daily basis.

However in the most darkest times, there is something that propels you to strive deeper inside yourself and power forward.

It maybe the deep burning desire to carry out their dreams, or the need to care for family left behind, or simply to keep remembering them in the best way possible.

You put one foot in front of another and proceed forward, one step at a time.

But how you wonder; how can we do all this after such a tragedy?

What is the purpose of all this?

Doesn’t something good have to become of this situation?

Isn’t there a goal to be achieved?

They didn’t die in vain.

There must have been a soul purpose this happened, and we will find it?

Please share your thoughts on why you think the universe put you in the situation?

What’s it telling us we need to achieve?

Or is it all just pure bad luck?